AJ Jakubowska's Guest is Ilana Miller- How to Talk to Kids about Separation and Overview of Parenting Coordination Sane Split Podcast This week's episode features my dialogue with Ilana Miller (formerly Tamari) - mediator. arbitrator, a parenting coordinator, and more. Topics include how to talk...
When Negotiation Stalls: Understanding Your BATNA in Family Mediation In the world of high-conflict family matters, emotions often cloud decision-making. And yet, one of the most empowering questions I guide clients to consider—quietly, privately, and honestly—is this: What will you do if this mediation doesn’t...
The metaphor of valleys and mountaintops, while staying grounded in the context of mediation and divorce settlements: While divorce can feel like a descent into the valley, mediation helps couples find their footing—not to return to the mountaintop of the past, but to begin charting...
The Language of Conflict: Two Sides, One Choice In the world of family law and conflict resolution, words are never neutral. They carry weight. They create tone. They signal intention. And — often — they shape outcomes long before any legal document is signed. There’s...